Four Step Program

Wives' Guide to Caring Domination

Understanding Submissiveness
Encouraging Domination

Being Submissive

TJ's Story


This side of our website is for submissive males.

Your Wife

The other side of our website helps fledgling dominants learn to be caring dominants. Our Caring Domination is designed to appeal to her. (If you are ever going to approach your mate about her being dominant, the male fantasy will not work.)


If you feel guilty about being submissive, you should read our information about being submissive.

Our four-step program lets you slowly introduce submission and dominance into a relationship. Or you can use it for hidden submissiveness.


Attraction Training: Train to be attracted to your domme or SO or feet or whatever
Safe Accepting Fun (sex, BDSM, and trying to make the world a better place)
Harem Experience
Vanilla And Spice (Chastity Message Board and Chat)

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