Subject: thanks Cynthia :-)|
Thank you soooooo much Cynthia for this website!!!
You are a life saver!
I can't believe how much the quality of my life has improved since I found this site.
For example, today I recommended to my wife that we have at least an hour of quiet time every week. So I said lets start today. We sat on our bed and talked while listening to music. While we talked I painted her toenails for her. Then I massaged her feet for about 1 1/2 hours as we continued to talk. She told me she felt like a princess, and at that moment I was the proudest man in the world. She asked me to do the laundry and to move some things around, which I was MORE than happy to do.
I cook all the meals now, vacuum, sometimes she asks me to go to the store for her. I make the bed every morning, do all the dishes, clean the kitchen, send her e-mails everyday, brush her hair. I am living a dream, and it's all thanks to what I've learned here. Oh, and sex has never been better or more frequent. We can't be 2 feet away without kissing and touching, that is unless the kids are there, LOL
thanks a million, I really hope this continues to blossom.
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Today after I finished doing the dishes and most of the laundry, we had our quiet time for this week. We sat on the bed and talked for nearly 2 hours. I massaged her feet the entire time. She loves our quiet time so much. Today I opened up and told her something very personal to show her I trust her deeply. She opened up and told me something to. We really enjoyed each others company, and she loves the foot massage. I am really trying to satisfy her, not just physically, but on an emotional level too. I am so happy to see her this happy.
I really love doing all the housework. I don't know why all men don't do this. I am a million times happier now than I was when I did nothing around the house. I guess there is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.
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My life keeps getting better everyday. This week my wife has willingly given up doing anything, and I do everything. I shop, cook all the meals, clean the kitchen, dishes, bathroom, bedrooms, make the beds, change the bed linen, everything. I open every door for her. I compliment her regularly on her looks, her good choices, her perfume, any opportunity that arises. I thank her when she tells me tasks to do such as the microwave needs cleaning. I do every chore with a smile and thank her for LETTING me do them. I make coffee every day and have a cup waiting for her every morning when she gets up.
I provide her with the sex that she wants every night. I dont put myself into her (we never did that much), but do all the other things she likes. I end every sex session with a foot massage for her cause I know how much she likes it. I want to be chaste for her and even a little bit deprived so I explained to her that once a week or once every two weeks is plenty for me. She agreed cause she thinks it makes a better orgasm for me. I told her that handjobs from her are my favorite so now she only gives me handjobs, (because I think anything more than that degrades a woman and my Dom should never be degraded in any way).
Everyday I love my wife more, and she me.
I wish I knew the things I've learned from here, many years ago.